Don't want to get married! Why is it so difficult for men to go to the altar?

You have always dreamed about a wedding dress, diamond ring and a honeymoon, but your boyfriend doesn't hurry with changing his social status and making you a married woman. He can find thousands of things to say why he doesn't intend to get married, but he will though keep the true reason in secret.

Some of men fear that a wife will ban their freedom. They fear that after they become spouses the best days of their lives are never going to come back. There is actually a certain percent of men who fear of being used. They assume that women are hunting for their money, possessions or last name that they'll give their children. Even if he loves you more than anything, a negative experience of his friend's marriage for example, may prevent him from making a proposal.

Remember yourself in childhood. You have probably imagined your wedding day a lot of times. A wedding ceremony for a girl is a terrific opportunity to feel like a princess and show everyone how beautiful she is. Little boys never think about marriage. As well as older guys think about it with horror. For a man it's like a show where you play the main role and everyone is pointing at you. They never feel comfortable being a groom and that's why want to postpone this event as much as possible.

And the last but not the least is men's fear of unknown. They don't know how it is going to work out, how much he will earn, how you will look in 10 years and what bothers them most is will you divorce or no. So next time you talk about marriage, ask him about these reasons and see what he has to tell you.