Hard times of living together

Now it is decided. You are going to live together. You are imagining perfect pictures of living in one house, how you wake up in the morning, cook breakfast and go for a walk in a park. Everything seems to be awesome. But take a pause there and think how well you know your man. Actually, the thing to think about is how ready he is for living together. Pay attention how he talks about the future change of status and how often he says "we" and "I". If he turns out to be rather selfish, be sure that you will not survive long. Take a closer look at his company. Usually, a man chooses friends according to his life views and beliefs and his friends may tell you a lot about your soul mate. Another hugely important thing to pay attention to is the way he treats his friends. How often does he prefer to go out with the company instead of staying with you?

Having visited his house, analyze the scene. Even if everything seems to be organized, a piece of moldy bread in the kitchen may spoil the picture. Think if you may have enough strength to put up with the mess.

Listen carefully when he talks about house chores division. He may tell you that his friend is pathetic because he washes dishes after meals. This is alarming as he may tell you he doesn't want to take care about the house. Will you be ready to be a perfect housewife after a hard day at work?

See how he treats money. Is he is a scrooge or a spender? It is quite difficult to live with a man if your attitude to money differs.

So all in all, it is not necessary to start analyzing your man right now. Maybe he suits you perfectly. Anyway, a good idea is take a vacation and go somewhere together for some time, somewhere where you will be on your own 24/7. That is the best examination.