Hard times of living with a man
It is not that hard to live with a man, you just have to put up with his weird likes and dislikes, and unusual habits. The thing is there are way too many things a girl has to close her eyes at. You will never change your man totally, but at least you should try. What are you to do if he always leaves his clothes or stuff all over the apartment? You are getting pissed that you have a collection of beer bottles and that he spends half of his salary on CDs that are thrown all over the place. American psychologists claim that you should not lose control in such situations. Stay calm and collect all the mess together with your boyfriend. It will actually help you show him what you expect from him and will give you some additional time to spend together. What to do if he keeps in touch with EXs? Try to understand that men get emotionally bound to women they spent a lot of time with, and it is hard for them to erase all memories no matter how much we want it. Stay cool-headed, he just needs time to move on. You can also start communicating with his ex-girlfriend just to see that she no intentions to win your honey back and understand why they broke up to avoid these mistakes in future. Another thing is that he is extremely lazy or is a TV/computer addict. All his free time is devoted to watching movies or playing computer games. No matter how you ask, he doesn't have the slightest desire to go jogging. What to do? You can hide a remote control or burst into tears, but it won't help. Show him that you can be lazy too and if dirty dishes, piles of dirty clothes and absence of food won't help, the case is desperate. And remember, that we, people, cannot change. Men can try that for their dearest, but you are to love your boyfriend just like he is, with all faults and bad habits. If you can't agree with everything he does, that's just not your type.
