Remember me...How to break up with no pain

Even if your relations seemed to be perfect, there are such times in the life of every girl when she needs to slam the door. But how to keep the hearts safe when saying "Good bye"? Men claim that the worst thing a girl can do is propose to stay friends. They say that a friendship between a man and a woman once you have unzipped his jeans is done. And it never comes back. So maybe it is just better to walk away, without any words or silly propositions.
What all guys hate is when a girl breaks up with them via phone. Put yourself in his shoes and be reasonable. No matter how hard it may be, find strength to tell him the bad news in person.
All people feel broken-hearted after being dumped. Still, if a man knows a reason why you left him, he may feel very grateful in the end. After tons of beer and sleepless nights spent in a strip bar with his friends, he will sit down to think why you decided to go. A smart guy will analyze his deeds and your words and will try his best not to be a fool next time.
Never give him the presents back. It is the silliest thought you can come up with at the day of your break up. First of all, it is very foolish: a wise man will never use the presents given to one woman as presents for another. Second of all, you will definitely tear his heart to pieces.
Moreover, what men say, is that it is better not to call them after some time. If you were the first to leave and he the one to grieve, don't bother him on a Birthday, don't visit his concerts if he is a musician, don't attend plays if he is an actor and don't show up in his neighborhood on purpose. A man will not appreciate that, while you will be a silly chick in his eyes.