You, he and his money
Why the one who promised to get you a star from the sky doesn't even buy you perfume now? And why doesn't he give you flowers almost every day? Doesn't he love you any more, or the problem lies deeper? There is a certain type of men, who like to collect money. Banknotes interest them as things. They like to feel the amount of money in their wallets, and love to be confident because they can buy a certain thing. Anyway when it comes to a real purchase, these men prefer to stay on the safe side and walk by. As long as you are his girlfriend, he may show you how generous he is, as he sees that you are worth it. When you become his wife though, you will witness a tremendous change in the attitude towards money. It is logically explained by the fact that he wants to leave more for your family, but when his collecting affection takes over sense you have to stop your man. If the decision is whether to buy a new fridge as the old one is not working properly or save up till Xmas, the right choice is to buy a fridge. Still, it is sometimes very hard for a man to do. The same thing is that they often do not understand why we need to spend so much money on nothing. Nothing here will be make up, new clothes or domestic stuff. Money quarrels and misunderstandings may get quite tough from time to time. The best solution for couples is to have a common budget and explain if needed the purpose of every purchase. Even if it is a 20th lipstick, be fair. And don't forget to listen to each other, sometimes your soul mate may be right when he claims it is better to save up a little so to go to Europe on a vacation where he will buy you everything you want.
